Hopefully, I am away on vacation when this post goes up.
The title asks the question. I want your answers.
But first, let me deconstruct the question, in 3 parts:
- “Panty-dropper” is a paternal, hetero-normal phrase for something that gets a girl so excited she wants to have sex on the spot. I’m not talking about sex (or boys-girls) with this phrase. Rather, I am trying to evoke that sense of excitement that leads to immediate action. I’d love to have a neutral term, so tell me if you have one. The question is aimed at any and all genders and orientations 😉
- With “your,” I am asking about things (or smells or words or whatever) that get you excited OR that you use to get others excited.
- I’m not really asking about sex, as that’s kinda boring (unless you’re a smooth P.U.A.). So it’s about exciting — emotional, intellectual, physical — which can refer to your mother’s praise, solving a crossword, or climbing a tree.
My one-handed reason for asking is that excitement is what makes our life worth living, what gets us out of bed in the morning.