Hopefully, I am away on vacation when this post goes up.
The title asks the question. I want your answers.
But first, let me deconstruct the question, in 3 parts:
- “Panty-dropper” is a paternal, hetero-normal phrase for something that gets a girl so excited she wants to have sex on the spot. I’m not talking about sex (or boys-girls) with this phrase. Rather, I am trying to evoke that sense of excitement that leads to immediate action. I’d love to have a neutral term, so tell me if you have one. The question is aimed at any and all genders and orientations 😉
- With “your,” I am asking about things (or smells or words or whatever) that get you excited OR that you use to get others excited.
- I’m not really asking about sex, as that’s kinda boring (unless you’re a smooth P.U.A.). So it’s about exciting — emotional, intellectual, physical — which can refer to your mother’s praise, solving a crossword, or climbing a tree.
My one-handed reason for asking is that excitement is what makes our life worth living, what gets us out of bed in the morning.
Do tell!
The title could be “what’s your turn on?”
These days it’s cooking. I’ve been dabbling in it for a long time, but got into it alot more after the pandemic started (since we don’t have alot of good takeout near us).
I get a high when I cook something that everyone really likes – my family is a set of picky eaters.